End before a beginning

There are some moments in life, which we certainly like to erase like we do with the dirty scriblings on a piece of clean paper. And i am feeling the same at this moments. We often make mistake in knowing people and for me this was the first, when your monument of trust is about to complete u came to know that your whole building is build on the falacy.

I sometimes wonder why people carry the burden of relationship (of any sort) when they actually cant and when they dont want to. I dont know what most of people believe but i think its better to end the relationship that only gives pain to you. Each one of us may have been through the same situation where someone whom we care, consider them as a friend in need, and want to share whatever we could and very next moment backstab you.

There could be two reason for it....First something is wrong with yourself (i feel it is the person itself who should be made responsible first) may be when we expect a lot from other people and assume that they will be there, and as it is said when we assume we are making an ASS of U and ME, so we should expect anything from anybody in return otherwise that will make dependent on others.

second could be may be something is wrong with the person( and that is what we feel most of the time) or may may be the condition would have a forced him to do so. We sometimes becomes so selfish in life in that we often forget others interest and feelings.

I dont know why i am writing this post....but the message is that we should think at least twice when we make decision filled with selfishness and try to be in others shoes and evaluate the implications of each of our moves.